The Reality of Online Dating Safety

Online dating is generally safe, but you need to be smart about it. Here's how to protect yourself while meeting new people.

Before Meeting

1. Verify Their Profile

- Look for verification badges

- Video chat before meeting

- Google their photos (reverse image search)

- Check their social media

2. Tell Someone

- Share your location with a friend

- Tell them who you're meeting

- Set a check-in time

- Have an exit plan

3. Choose the Right Place

- Always meet in public first

- Pick a busy location

- Have your own transportation

- Don't go to their place on the first date

During the Date

1. Stay Sober

- Limit alcohol

- Never leave your drink unattended

- Don't accept drinks from strangers

2. Trust Your Gut

- If something feels off, leave

- You don't owe anyone anything

- It's okay to change your mind

3. Keep Personal Info Private

- Don't share your address

- Use the app's messaging until you trust them

- Be vague about your workplace

Red Flags to Watch For

- Pushing to meet immediately

- Asking for money

- Getting angry or aggressive

- Refusing to video chat

- Being vague about their life

- Love bombing (too intense too fast)

After the Date

- Let your friend know you're safe

- Block if they made you uncomfortable

- Report concerning behavior to the app

- Trust your feelings

Conclusion

Dating should be fun, not scary. By following these safety tips, you can enjoy meeting new people while staying protected.

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