Safety & Respect Guidelines

Flistr is built on principles of consent, respect, and inclusivity. These guidelines help keep our community safe for everyone.

In an Emergency

If you are in immediate danger, call 911 or your local emergency services. For non-emergency support, contact local crisis hotlines or support organizations.

Consent-First Culture

Consent is mandatory, enthusiastic, and ongoing. It can be withdrawn at any time. No means no. Silence is not consent. Respect boundaries always.

Always ask before physical contact
Respect "no" without pressure or guilt
Check in regularly during encounters
Consent to one activity doesn't mean consent to all
Intoxication affects the ability to consent

Inclusive & Respectful Language

Flistr welcomes people of all gender identities, sexual orientations, and backgrounds. Use language that respects everyone's identity.

Use the pronouns people specify in their profiles
Respect people's stated gender identities
Don't make assumptions based on appearance
Avoid fetishizing or objectifying language
If you make a mistake, apologize and correct it

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LGBTQIA+ Protections

Flistr has zero tolerance for discrimination, harassment, or hate speech targeting LGBTQIA+ individuals.

Trans and non-binary identities are valid and respected
"Chasers" and fetishizers will be banned
Outing someone without consent is prohibited
Misgendering or deadnaming is not tolerated
Report any transphobia, homophobia, or biphobia immediately

Safe Meetup Guidelines

When meeting someone from Flistr in person, take precautions to ensure your safety.

Before Meeting:

Video chat first to verify identity
Share your plans with a trusted friend
Choose a public, well-lit meeting place
Have your own transportation arranged

During the Meeting:

Keep your phone charged and accessible
Don't leave drinks unattended
Trust your instincts - leave if something feels wrong
Check in with your friend at agreed times

Never:

Share your home address before meeting
Send money or financial information
Feel pressured to do anything you're uncomfortable with
Ignore red flags or warning signs

Report Harassment or Abuse

If someone violates these guidelines, report them immediately. We take all reports seriously and will investigate promptly.

Use the "Report" button on profiles and messages
Block users who make you uncomfortable
Save screenshots of harassment as evidence
Contact support for urgent safety concerns

Zero Tolerance Policy

The following behaviors will result in immediate account suspension or ban:

• Harassment, threats, or hate speech
• Non-consensual sharing of intimate content
• Discrimination based on identity or orientation
• Solicitation of minors (18+ only)
• Scams, fraud, or financial exploitation
• Doxxing or sharing private information
• Impersonation or catfishing

Support Resources

If you need support, these organizations can help:

National Sexual Assault Hotline

1-800-656-4673 (HOPE) • 24/7 confidential support

The Trevor Project (LGBTQ+ Youth)

1-866-488-7386 • Crisis support for LGBTQ+ young people

Trans Lifeline

1-877-565-8860 • Support by and for trans people

National Domestic Violence Hotline

1-800-799-7233 • 24/7 support for domestic violence survivors

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